End of Life Services
How and Why we need support
Our own end of life is something all of us will reflect on at some point in our life. In recent times end of life has been highlighted with Covid 19. It has made us confront our own mortality and of others important to us.
If one is provided with emotional and practical support our end of life can be purposeful and have meaning. Providing a final chance to be at peace with oneself and others. It can be a time of great courage, inner strength and reflection. A time of love, understanding and acceptance.
Ultimately the role of an end of life doula will be defined by
the client. Being a non medical role we offer support both emotionally and practically and provide accurate information to help the client and or their family make informed choices about putting things in order and planning ahead to the time they say goodbye.
End of Life Services
How we assist
Consultation
There are many reasons why people seek the services of an end of life doula. In the first consultation we will review your needs and then tailor a support plan. Here are some of the examples of when our services can help.
• the elderly (possibly years before their death is due for arrival), they want to be prepared or need support due
to limitations. ie health or mobility issues
• the terminally ill, at any age
• the grieving, those who have lost or are about to say goodbye to a loved one
• those facing the loss of a pet or beloved animal
• those not near death but who want to wrestle with and confront their mortality now
• those looking to practically plan for end-of-life, at any age, regardless of health status
We provide care services that will allow for an empowered and natural death by supporting the dying and their families. Because everyone has a unique situation, some may want help to seek out resources, information, hands on practical and emotional support. Others may need help putting affairs in order. Consultation is a very important part of our support. Its key to providing the best service possible to fit your needs.
If you are new to the idea and not sure what an End of Life Doula means, we can explain further detail of what to expect and we will assess your needs to see if we may be of service. You will also have the opportunity to determine if our services would benefit your situation.
Grieving Guidance
Grieving is a very personal process. This support is very individual and can take many forms. Here are some examples:
talking about the natural and normal stages of grievingÂ
Being with someone after the inital loss of a loved one, so they are not alone and have company.
Check in making sure they eat, rest and are cared for.Â
Help creating Memory projects like photo albums, videos etc
Support while organising arrangements for funeral and other related tasks
Support and help dealing with belongings. Please contact us if you are need of support.
Vigil service
Our vigil service, is emotional and physical support when someone is actively dying. Providing respite care and comfort for the dying. Explaining to loved ones what is going to happen to reduce fear and create calm. Helping family maintain and create a peaceful environment. This could be at home, hospital or hospice. Please contact us for further details if this is a service you need.